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Name: Mary Hayton

Burial Number: 1282

Gender: Female

Born: 00/00/1850

Died: 26/01/1927

Buried: 01/02/1927


Mary (Oetzmann) was born in Bloomsbury and Mary’s father Frederick was a Piano Manufacturer, living in Norfolk Square.  Her mother, Lelias Verralls, was the daughter of a Farmer in Finchley! Mary was the oldest child of six.

In 1851 Frederick and family were living in Great Russell Street. In 1880 his company was based in Blandford Mews, Manchester Square, Conduit Street and in Broad Street, London

Frederick Oetzmann and Sons’ Pianofortes and harmoniums will be found on comparison the most reasonable in London. Established 30 years : none but first class Pianofortes manufactured. 151, Regent Street. The only address. Frederick Oetzmann and Sons’ Pianofortes and harmoniums, new and second hand. On the tree years’ system :
– Pianettes from 2 p. 2g per quarter.
– Piccolos from 2 p. 10g per quarter.
– Drwaing room Model from 3 p. 3g per quarter.
Harmoniums, best make, eight pleasing stops, 1 ½ guinea per quarter. Frederick Oetzmann & sons, 151, Regent St.”

Mary married Charles Hayton on the 29th July 1872, in St. Nicholas, Brighton. . Charles was Clerk to her father’s Business.

Charles, born in Tonbridge, Kent, was the son of Isaac Hayton and Nancy Carfrae. At Charles’s Baptism in October 1847, at St Peter & St Paul, Tonbridge, Isaac was described as a Gentleman.

Charles and Mary Rosa went on to have six children.

In 1880, daughter Mary Constance was baptised in St Mary, Putney. Father Charles was a Pianoforte Manufacturer.

In 1881, living in Putney, Charles and Mary had  daughters Maud, Winifred  and Mary, and 2-year-old Charles, a Cook and a Nurse.

Living in Streatham in 1891, they now had another son, Arthur,  and their eldest daughter, Maud, was a Governess. They had lost another daughter, Dorothy, in her first year.

1895 – “Notice is hereby given that the Partnership hereto fore subsisting between us the undersigned Frederick William Oetzmann, Arthur Leopold Oetzmann and Charles Isaac Hayton carrying on business as Pianoforte Manufacturers at No. 38 Conduit-street, Regent-street in the county of Middlesex under the style or firm Frederick Oetzmann and Sons has been disolved by mutual consent so far as regards the said Charles Isaac Hayton as from the 10th day of August 1895. […]” The London Gazette, 1895, p. 4571

As Frederick Senior had died in 1879, this must be his son, and Mary’s younger brother, Frederick, as well as her brother Arthur. Charles and Frederick Junior were the Executors of Frederick’s will.From then on, Charles Hayton was in business on his own.

Still in Streatham in 1901, Charles was ‘Manager to a Paint Decorators’, Winifred, at 26, was a Governess, son Charles, at 22, was a Furniture Salesman and daughter Mary, at 20, was a Clerk to a Savings Bank. They had a female Servant and Jane Couchman, 35, ‘Companion to a Lady.’

In 1911, living in Kitson Road,  Barnes, Surrey, Charles and Mary had daughter Winifred Rose living with them, and a 19-year-old female Servant. It was recorded that they had had 7chuildren, 2 of whom had died. Charles was described as ‘Chief Receptionaire at a Furniture Firm (one who receives Customers)’

By 1918, they had moved to 49 Alexandra Road, Worthing, which was to be their final home.

In the 1921 census, Charles, Mary and Winifred were Visitors in the household of  Harold Hart, Gentleman, and his wife Maude, in Downside, Offington Lane.

Maude and Joseph were married in 1921. Joseph, born in Leicestershire, had been a ‘Hired Hand’ in Manitoba, before leaving for England and arriving in Liverpool in 1911. Joseph died, in Worthing, in 1931 – but that’s another story…..

When Charles died, at Groombridge Nursing Home, his address was given as 49 Alexandra Road. Probate was given to Charles Frederick Carfrae Hayton and Arthur Cuthbert Hayton.

When Mary died, in 1927, living in Alexandra Road, Probate was given to Maud Francis Mary Hart (her eldest daughter), Winifred Rose Hayton and  Charles Frederick Carfrae Hayton, Sales Manager.


Researcher: Liz Lane

The Grave

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Location in Cemetery

Area: SES Row: 7 Plot: 17

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In loving memory of my beloved husband Charles Isaac Hayton who entered into rest 4th April 1924 aged 76 years "Resting and trusting in Christ" also our beloved mother Mary Rose Hayton aged 76 years who fell asleep 26th January 1927 after many years of patient suffering. Rev.Vll 14-17 Portion of the cost of this headstone was given by a faithful and devoted Chinese servant

Further Information


Name: Mary Rose Hayton

Gender: Female

Born: 00/00/1850

Town: Bloomsbury

County: London

Country: England


Maiden Name:Oetzmann

Marriage Date: 29/7/1872

Spouse First Name: Charles

Spouse Last Name: Hayton

Town of Marriage: Brighton

County of Marriage: Sussex

Country of Marriage: England

Information at Death

Date of Death: 26/01/1927

Cause of death: Unknown

Address line 3: Alexandra Road

Town: Worthing

County: Sussex

Country: England


No obituary has been entered.

Personal Effects

Money left to others: No value recorded

Current value of effects: Not calculated

Census Information


Living in Great Russell Street


Living in Putney – Charles; Mary Rosa; Maud; Winifred; Mary; Charles, 2yrs; Cook; Nurse;


Living in Streatham – Charles; Mary Rosa; Maud, Governess; Arthur;


Living in Streatham – Charles, Manager to a Paint and Decorators; Winifred, 26yrs, Governess; Charles, 22yrs; Furniture Salesman; Mary, 20yrs, Clerk to a Savings Bank; Jane Couchman, 35yrs, Companion to a Lady; Servant;


Living in Kitson Road, Barnes, Surrey – Charles, Chief Receptionaire at a Furniture Firm; Mary; Winifred Rose, Servant, 19yrs;


Staying at Downside, Offington Lane, Worthing – Harold Hart; Maude Hart; Charles; Mary; Winifred;

Miscellaneous Information

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