Frances Oakes (buried 1926)

At a glance

At a glance
Surname: 
Oakes
First name: 
Frances
Other Christian names: 
Fanny
Gender: 
Female
Children: 
Yes
Burial number: 
1258
Born: 
21/8/1842
Died: 
16/08/1926
Buried: 
18/08/1926
Occupation: 
Private means
Distinction: 
Indian Army wife
Heene Hallmark: 
No
Commonwealth War Grave: 
No

The Grave

The grave
Cemetery area: 
SES
Cemetery row: 
9
Cemetery plot: 
22
Burial remains: 
Unknown
The headstone
Headstone inscription: 
In ever loving memory of my beloved husband Colonel George Henry Oakes Indian Army who passed into the presence of the Lord 4th June 1909 aged 70 years "O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory? Thanks be to God which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ" 1 Cor. XV 55.57 Followed on August 16th 1926 by Frances Fanny Oakes his dearly loved wife for over 48 years aged 84 years "Just as I am without one plea but thatThy blood was shed for me and that Thou bidd'st me come to Thee. O Lamb of God I come" Also of Florence Mary Oakes the devoted daughter of the above born 22nd October 1874 died 21t January 1961 "I know that my Redeemer liveth" Job 19 v.25

Life story

Life story

Frances known as Fanny was born in Singapore, which at the time was run by the British East India Company as part of the Straits Settlements. Her father John was Overseer of the Commisariat Department and was responsible for supplying the British Army with food, clothing etc but not weapons. Fanny's mother Jean nee Logan died of dysentery in June 1852 aged 44. John died in the November of chronic liver disease. Fanny stayed on in India and in 1860, married Ensign George Henry Oakes of the 4th Regiment, Madras Staff Corps. The wedding took place at St Andrew's Church, Madras on 8th October. Amy Lucy was born in 1863 followed by George Richard in 1865, Howard Augustus in 1867, Fanny Constance in 1869, Horace Charles in 1871, Florence Mary in 1874 and Douglas Milne in 1876. He was born in Hampstead, England. Sadly, Fanny Constance died in 1874 in Bangalore aged 5. Amy Lucy married in 1886 but tragically died the following year when her carriage was involved in an accident. By 1891, the family had returned to England, living in Weymouth. George retired in 1896. In 1901, George, Fanny and Florence stayed in Worthing and by 1905, had moved to the town permanently. They moved into "Ferndale" in Winchester Road and then in 1909 to "Teviotdale" in Mill Road. George died here on 4th June 1909 and was buried at Heene. Fanny and her daughter Florence moved to "Montrose" in Belsize Road. Fanny died on 16th August 1926 (see notice below). Probate was granted on 30th August to Douglas Milne Oakes retired Major. Effects £371 14s 7d.

Florence Oakes stayed at "Montrose" until her death in 1961. She was buried with her parents.

Burial researcher: 
Carol Sullivan

Further information

Birth
Date born: 
21/08/1842
Marriage
Maiden name: 
Milne
Marriage 1
Spouse one first names: 
George Henry
Spouse one last name: 
Oakes
Marriage one date: 
08/10/1860
Marriage one address: 
Madras, India

Death

Death (details)
Date of death: 
16/08/1926
Age (at time of death): 
84
Cause of death: 
Stroke
Address at time of death: 
Montrose, 37 Belsize Road, Worthing, Sussex, England
Obituary

Worthing Gazette 22nd September 1926

At Montrose, Belsize Road, the residence of her daughter, Frances Fanny Oakes widow of Colonel George Henry Oakes aged 84 years, passed quietly away after lingering nearly a month from a seizure after the very painful removal of a small cyst on her lower eyelid.

Personal effects
Probate pounds: 
£371

Census and miscellaneous information

Census information
1891 census: 

"Southsyde" Alexander Road, Weymouth, Dorset

George aged 51, colonel Indian Staff Corps. Fanny aged 48. Florence aged 16. Douglas aged 14. Plus 2 servants.

1901 census: 

79 Marine Parade, Worthing, Sussex.

George aged 61, colonel Indian Army Staff Corps. Fanny aged 58. Florence aged 26. Staying at a boarding house run by Isabella Staygle.

1911 census: 

"Montrose" Belsize Road, Worthing.

Fanny aged 68, widow. Florence Mary aged 36. Plus 1 servant.

1921 census: 

37 Belsize Road, Worthing, Sussex

Fanny Oakes, widow. Florence Mary Oakes, daughter.